okay. this post is gonna be all about pregnancy. so if you are not interested, just leave

oh. did i mention i may contradict myself alot?

I have always wished surreptitiously each time i think of pregnancy that man can be pregnant too. reason being - i think woman have to go through alot during pregnancy. The labour pain and all. Yet, man only get to watch the women suffer while they just stand aside. ok. To be fair- some claims that they WISH they could share the load. Others told me that the husband will suffer emotional pain to see their wife suffering like this. well, to me, i seriously would rather just suffer emotional pain.

hahah. okokay. BALANCE BALANCE. Women who are happily married and have a good husband that dotes on them says that it is a unique process of their life where a life is actually inside them. Well, maybe pregnancy is not that scary and horrible afterall. I mean, if you really love ur spouse, you will wana bear him his children right? And perhaps from another angle, its is a special gift that God gave to women that only they can get pregnant and give birth.

i always hold this belief that the child will have a special connection with the mum because of the nine months in the womb.

But the thought of having to go through labour for many many many hours kinda horrifys me.

Ok. Back to the topic. So having so many questions in me , I decided to look up on the web on whether man will ever get pregnant. and i chanced upon this.

http://www.malepregnancy.com/movie/

THE FIRST MAN WHO GOT PREGNANT.

He is now four months pregnant and the foetus is in perfect condition.

ok. Anyone in their natural mind would know that this will be linked to genetic mutation or whatever you call it.

Having watched the video, I had mixed feelings. Initially i felt happy and 'revengeful' whereby i said FINALLY man get a taste of it. but slowly, i kinda find all this thing about man getting pregnant repugnant. Its like.. The wonderful creation of God is getting into a mess. This special gift of God that only women can get pregnant is no longer SPECIAL.

Andandand. How would the baby feel having known that he is 'not normal'. There must be a reason why God let woman have the gift of pregnancy and not man. How will the baby cope with the accusations of his friends in future ? Maybe he may feel special cause he is the first baby to be formed in a man. Butsomewhere inside him, he will nvr feel complete. That he/she is not born out of love of the parents.

This is worrying me.

I really cannot imagine how our next generation will become. What a messy world they will be in where man can do woman's job and woman are climbing above man. there seems to a mixed identity somewhere.